Injustice is a Threat to Justice Everywhere- Nelson Mandela

"The Global Economy Owes a Huge Debt to The Poorest Women of The World."- Canadian Ecumenical Jubilee Initiative


"Can The Whole World Be WRONG?"- Kofi- Annan (UN)


"The Ones Who Have Nothing Left to Lose, Hope Falls Into Depression and Can No Longer React"- The Underground Children of Mongolia



"Old Wine in an Old Bottle is Due to Fail."- George Cadle Price (Former Prime Minister of Belize)



Take ACTION, MAKE THE CHANGE & BE IT!

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights

Insomnia

Nha POVO nu corda dess insomnia,
Corda? Sim, corda.
Dess insomnia? ayan propi kela.
E bu sabi pm??? PAMO nu ta vivi vida ta "durmi patinzin"
Nu sta dexa vida passanu pa frente sem nu sabi pm k certos cusas eh kz k es eh e nao otu manera.
Kmessa ta PERGUNTA, pa bu pode SABI pa dipos bu podi COMPARTILHA k ots a bu redor.

Milagreiro- Djavan

Agora vamos ter os girassóis
do fim do ano
e o calor vem desumano
tudo irá se expandir
crescer com as águas
quiçá, amores nos corações
e um santeiro,
milagreiro
prevê a dor
de terceiros
e diz que a vida
é feita de ilusão
e um santeiro,
milagreiro
prevê a dor
de terceiros
e diz que a vida
é feita de ilusão
aquela que um dia o fez sonhar
se foi com o outro
no dia em que os dois
se casariam por amor
ele aluou
hoje o seu pesar
cintila nos varais
usou as sete vidas
e não foi feliz jamais
toda a imensidão
passou pela vida
e foi cair na solidão
mais um santo para esculpir é o que lhe vale
pra evitar que o rancor suas ervas se espalhe

Marcelo Hubenr

You, CAN Do Something!!!!!!

Taking care of our environment, our planet, and our home is everyone's responsibility; surely everybody knows about it. I believe that people have a little hard time, in knowing where they can participate in this game. Many years go by and we become so blinded about how things function and how they're made, that we think everything is really far from us and it is only founded in big corporations. But that is not true! The truth is, that YES each person can change something in this planet. Little actions by small number of people, can change what the big corporations are producing. Have you ever thought about that? If little by little, everyone stopped using McDonald's, what will happen? Then, the company would either go out of business, or it would have to rethink about its concepts, right? Just so you know, 'we the people' have a lot of power in our hands!!! And just to help those that knows little about where to start helping the planet in this GO GREEN progress, here are some tips:
*Close the tap when brushing the teeth and economize 9.2 gallons [gl] or 34,5liters [ l ] of water per day. (It seems craziness, but I know people that don't close the tap!)

*Buy less food. 1/3 of everything that you buy goes to garbage.

*Don't throw cooking oil in the toilet (I've heard of people doing such). 34 ounces (1l) of oil pollutes more than 6,604gl (25,000 l) of water. (If you don't know what it is to pollute more than 6,604gl of whater, think of the $14,176.36 USD you are losing every year!)

*Flashing the toilet, at least one less time a day, can economize up to 3.7gl (14l) of water.

*Reduce the time showering: 5 minutes less, already economizes 12gl (45l) in each bath taken (that goes out to me, desculpa :/ ....)
*Wash the car once a month, and economize 137.37gl (520l) of water.
*Turn off the light. Wasted energy makes a spending of $600 BI a year in the US (in the US alone!)
*Opt to work at home. Economize 16 to 23 kilowatts/hour of electricity 1.37gl (5,2l) of gas per day.

*Use you bicycle once a week. If 30 people in each state did this, that would be 104 tons of CO2 less in the air a year. (Let's face it, it is way cooler biking!!!!!)

Hunf, you see how little can change a lot?

...n cre bebi cha k bo na deserto Sahara!

WORDS!

Words...

Words when said with truth, their meaning has a higher value than action, sometimes and at times.
Words that can't be said when needed, that can't be expressed when felt.
Words that by many are said in vain, and said less by others.
Words of reality...
words unspoken!

What I say at times may sound crazy and all but it sure makes sense all in my head....
When wanting to speak, I get speechless
...when wanting to be quiet and just listen I lose track of time and start speaking again.

I promised myself that the next time I had the chance to let you know of such words and feelings, that I would certaintly do so.

I really can't express exactly what is that I'd like to say;
...but the day to do so will come....sooner or later!
For better and for always better!
Like you had said "one day we'll see each other"
and I had said "Amen",
given the fact that...
I dream of that day, so often.

I'd want to drink tea in the Sahara desert with you,
....eat ice cream when is below zero degrees by your side,
I'd like to see the world through your eyes.

While learning so much with you, from and by you.

So many thoughts runs through my mind.....

I wish I could have the courage to call you "my soul mate",
whenever my heart felt like it.
At least more than once!
Calling you my other half,
while singing "our" song...
Words
....tby India Arie and Anthony David.

Words unsaid, words unspoken
of a woman who loves without any expectations,

A breeze is touching my skin, and I close my eyes....
I open my mouth and get ready to speak

Pause
....
Oh wait, I can't say a thing...

My mind says STOP,
My conscious tell s me to not say anything
My heart says I'm afraid of your reactions...

Would I lose SOMETHING? Anything? Everything?
I have so little from you....
But it is exactly those little things that makes up a BIG small detail in my life.

Shouldn't hurt telling you of my feelings, or could it change ANYTHING and EVERYTHING!?
How would I know, if I haven't given myself the chance to Say what I need to say.

How about of when I hear Sunshine by Raul Midon, or perhaps Neyon by John Mayer. Would these songs transmit to you words and feeling that I, myself can't say to you?!


Miles apart, a lifetime away....but I've always felt so close to you.

...and that is why I have never given up, even if these words of reality are unspoken.

You are the Truth, and it is so real....to me that is.

....tired!

N ca cria screbi sobre keli na nha blog, ma djam CANSA! Djam cansa de sta so na 914 ou 212, djam cansa de sistema k eh um burrice, apesar de k n ta assume k mi tb n deve ser um imbecil k so ta fazi kz kes ta flam, djam cansa d pessoas k odju gordo, d alunos preguicosos, de pais ausentes e alienados, cansa d cegueira humana, djam cansa d fourteens going on forty, djam cansa!
Djam cansa dess calor infernal k sta na MK, djam cansa d chuva mal caido e ruas humidas, djam cansa d 914 (mas um bes), djam cansa d companias d movel, djam cansa d internet, d odja tv....cansei-me! Juro ma djam cansa d aliencao humana, ooooh djam cansa tb d TPM feminina.
Aiiii, quanto esforco! Djam cansa d pinta nhas usas e stragas na ess climinha d m***, djam cansa d falta d comunicacao masculina, cansa d um fala mal contod "n ca ta tido tempo pa nada, ma n ta lembra na bo sempre". Bu devia eh msm lembra na mi, qdo b ta flam um munti d paranoia....Pa fala verdade djam cansa d 1 em si, djam cansa d 238 msm sem ter stadu la pa tanto tempo. N cre bai pa 091 undi n ca conxi ninguem e ninguem ca conxem. So n ca ta spanta ninguem, pm kela ka sa bem resolvi nha problema, inclusive eh ta fazeba mi mergudja em varios outros.
Racionalidade na kes horas li ca ta fazeba mal a ninguem. Ma djam cansa! E agora go? Sa d noti pa n sai pa fica baxu sombra...ma n cre toma um fresco. E ainda k ta fazem fica mas cansado eh qdo n ta fazedo por parva (axu k tem kem k ta fazi si pa puro prazer msm), djam cansa d qdo nha valor eh ca reconhecido na se 99.9%. Aaaaah dam um folga, God mine!
Na undi kel mundo sem sistemas burros e de pessoas alienadas? Cade??? Aserio k, djam CANSA!
I'm tired of this bullsh*t. Tired of wanting to express myself to the fullest and my feelings and not being able to because of VERGONHA ou msm tb falta d pura coragem!

Sore, ma tem mas um item: djam cansa d pessoas k ca sabi le e intende direccionamentos d como e quando fazi algum tarefa. Definitivamente, je suis desole a moi meme, ma djam CANSA!

hunf :@

Dreaming with a Broken Heart- John Mayer

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
Then waking up is the hardest part
You roll outta bed and down on your knees
And for a moment you can hardly breathe
Wondering was she really here?
Is she standing in my room?
No she's not, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone....

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The giving up is the hardest part
She takes you in with her crying eyes
Then all at once you have to say goodbye
Wondering could you stay my love?
Will you wake up by my side?
No she can't, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone....

Now do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hands
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hands?
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hands?
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my , roses in my hands?

Would you get them if i did?
No you won't, 'cause you're gone, gone, gone, gone, gone....

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part!

"A man who fears suffering
is already suffering from what he fears."

Montaigne

...comberso d mi pa bo!

aaaaaaaah! N ta cria tanto pa alminhas proximas intendeba keli! Credooooooo....

Pa muda, ta exige pa nu dexa nos zona d comforto e pa nu mergudja cabesa na situacoes desconfortaveis.

Verdade seja dita, que keli ta causa algum sofrimento e desconforto pa um tempo, ma eh keli ke caminho mas faxi pa nu cria abondansa de longo prazo.

Hoje, quando kes desafios for avassaladores, continua ta segui pa frenti, e fica ta sabi k tem Luz logo la, msm por detras des.

Friendship is everything!

...from the concrete, who knew a flower would grow?!

There are so many good things in what is our worst, and so many bad things in what we have as our best, that nothing serves better as to assume the worst in none of us.

Today, show and tell what's best in others....and in yourself as well.

Nu sta na um guerra k nos duvidas. Lembra sempre de kela. Tudo vez k nu sta proximo a supera e de atingi o nivel seguinte, nu eh atacados.

Hoje go, ca bu aceita simplesmente kes pensamentos k ta passanu pa mente. Luta contra es!

Exije, mais amor. De bo mesmo!

Building my future....

I've been day dreaming...
It's been more than a year since I've been day dreaming like this; but of course, sometimes it's better not to indulge the dream so that I don't become too anxious.
Some people comes to our life very slowly, without intentions and they bring peace and comfort.
Others enter without asking for permission and causes tensions, insatisfaction and unhappiness. That's crazy, huh?!
But whenever peace and comfort are around, then I like to dream... By the way day dreaming is so good for the skin and the heart. Isn't the creative imagination, what builds our future?! Used to say Einstein and many others...And it's like that, that I want to cultivate relationships in my life. These days, I'm fighting hard to eliminate all that brings me fear. Some people are great, but not so great to people, and it should be simple like that, without persistence, without a lot of questions. I want to dream of what brings me a warmth in my heart, of that is more simple and magic at the same time. Of what is lacking evidence...I deserve to live of what is more beautiful, more truthful, of what is more solid.
Some people confuses truth with convenience, others confuse education with pretending and I....I don't have to judge anyone, but to me the truth is what matters. Certain people still believe that life is made out of reason and not of emotions. I come around not to judge anyone, but to cultivate my emotions with comfort and peace.
I only accept the relationships where the sincerity that each person has to maintain with themselves is never affected by others.
I deserve the better of the best! I deserve the luck of a serene love...and just like that, I keep dreaming.

What Makes Me Happy?

What makes me happy?

What makes me happy?

Those who want my well being,

Having God’s blessing;

the love of my family,

the sympathy of my friends.

Life makes me happy,

I’m happy for my well being,

My state of mind,

For the peace in my heart.

I’m happy because I can be happy.

I’m happy to have you in my life.

I’m happy to say Amen, when we scream loud: peace on Earth to mankind.

I’m happy because I can breath,

Because my heart beats,

And for the blood that runs in my body….

I’m happy!

For the simplest and smallest things that exist,

For a sincere smile full of grace.

My health,

My love for art, music…life,

They too make me happy.

…and I still ask myself,

What makes me happy?

Why am I happy?

…and with all my sincerity, I say

I am happy because I am a Human being,

Living more than ever.

I am happy.

Time Traveler

Today's lesson was thought to me by Dr. Noel S. Anderson and Dr. Haroon Kharem.
One of the things out of many, that stood out to me was Dr. Anderson's point of view on traveling.
He said "the more your travel, the less you know." I have to agree with him, we need to start conversations and interactions with people from different backgrounds, and get to understand where we all come from.

"If you don't know where you've been, you don't know where who you are, and you don't know where you are going. "- Dr. Haroon Kharem

Educate yourself, there's a world of possibilities out there.


I start now!

Inspired...

Inspired by a poem written by Arnaldo Antunes, a writer and composer from Brazil.

I wrote in response to his poem, posted by Borbuletas no Estomago.

It's written in Portuguese, but I will translate it, afterward.


O Que Me Faz Feliz

O que me faz feliz?
O que me faz feliz?
Faz-me feliz, os que bem me quer.
Sou feliz por ter a bençao de Deus; o amor da minha familia, a simpatia dos meus amigos.
Faz-me feliz a vida,
o meu bem estar,
a paz do meu espirito.
Sou feliz por ser feliz.
Feliz por ter-te na minha vida.
Feliz por dizer Amen! qdo todos gritam PAZ NA TERRA A TODOS OS HOMENS!
Sou feliz pela minha respiraçao,
o meu coraçao que bate,
o sangue que corre nas minhas veias...
Sou feliz!
Pelas coisas mais simples e pequenas que possam exister.
Faz-me feliz, um sorriso espontaneo e cheia de graça.
Faz-me feliz, a minha saude.
O meu amor a musica, a arte...a vida.

E ainda me pergunto,
o que me faz feliz?
Porque sou feliz?

E te respondo com toda a sinceridade,
que sou feliz, porque sou um ser Humano,
mais vivo do que nunca.

Sou feliz.

Words of Reality

"You may think I'm a small person here, I'm 28 years old, for the record. Just for those who are saying, who is this small person telling us or teaching us... I'm not teaching anybody, I'm just sharing my experiences. That's what we call O.D.D at home [Nigeria] ... What I'm trying to say is...I take everything so serious, I find myself taking everything so serious (this year), like, it's good to be focused, is good to be serious, but it's also important not to forget, to feel, to really feel. And i decided to take a break [...] I went back home, and so many things happened within that one month in Lagos (Nigeria)...so many serious, like...accidents, I see people dying, I go to the general hospital, and I see how people are packed, together in one room, with all sorts of sickness and stuff like that...and I'm like...Nneka, your life is good, and God is good, and I'm not saying that if one is going through hardship, that God is not good...God is always good. Important is that we live life to the fullest, that we love. The only thing, that is important in life is to love, and that's the healing to every thing, to every sickness, to every whatsoever. The answer is LOVE, begin, end, middle...so that's my own. [...]"

These words of reality, were spoken by Nneka, live in Philly, before singing Heartbeat.
Her words, speak to me, as I live my everyday life.
The link is as follow: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_FRY0Ypik8

Power on the Rise

Nneka was born in Nigeria, and at the age of 19 she emigrated to Hamburg, Germany, to follow her singing career while she was at a local university pursuing her BA in Anthropology. After meeting DJ & Beatboxer Dj Farhot. her secret to success, she has risen.
Her music reflects her life in Nigeria, but also the time period, lived in Europe. The distance from her homeland to her current city reflects in her voice, as well as her music influences. As key references, her compatriot Fela Kuti, Bob Marley the Reggae lend, and recent rappers such as Miss Lauryn Hill, Talib Kweli, Mobb Deep and Mos Def.

I was introduced to Nneka in late 2006, by a friend who lives in Germany. Since then I've researched about Nneka, about her life, her story and her music. I've found myself, listening to her music non-stop. I've learned to embrace her lyrics as part of my reality. Her voice is so angelic and rustic, that I've recommended her music to other people.
Before, she became well known in the US, she had fans all over Europe, and her mother country Nigeria.

Ye Yo

Ye Yo means "Mother" in Swahili.
I heard this song for the first time, less than 7 minutes ago. I immediately fell in love with it. Erykah Badu's voice is so powerful and pure. I respect her for who she is.

She begins by saying:
"I'd like to thank the Creator, for giving me this gift, and I'd like to thank you for being the reflection of this gift. 'Cause sometimes, you feel like you are by yourself and hmmm...no matter what anybody ever thinks...no matter what anybody EVER thinks, I still get cold when it's cold, hunger when I'm hungry, miss my mama when I'm away...get tired... I'm a person and I represent you."

Lyrics and the video to this beautiful song:

Ye yo, ye yo, ye yo, ye yo
(Help me)
Ye yo, ye yo, ye yo, ye yo...

Sometimes,
Sometimes I get so lonely, lonely, lonely
I feel all by myself up here
That's when I take a minute
To re-evaluate things
All of the things I think are special
Oooh like
When you wake up in the morning
And you see the morning sun
And you need to know the world is on your side
Who do you run to?
Who can you turn to?
Come on
Then the evening comes to greet you
You need someone to hold you close
And you feel the need to rest your aching mind
Who can you run to?
Who can you turn to?
Well see the sun's in the east and the moon reflects
Like the knowledge and wisdom I manifest
If you wanna go to heaven lay up on my breast
I'm ye yo, your ye yo
I say the sun's in the east and the moon reflects
Like the knowledge and wisdom I manifest
If you wanna go to heaven lay up on my breast
I'm ye yo, your ye yo
Ye yo, ye yo, ye yo.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXyKgoptqBg

Mediation-Veil

Yesterday,
I went to the weekly Binghamton Sitting club aka Meditation club meeting.
For the first time, since the beginning of the semester, I was able to truly concentrate and just feel as if I was in a different world. For the first time, my state of mind was free.
Subsequently, our first "exercise" was to sing...different hymns and beats, all at once; different melodies and sounds, all in different tempo. I felt such a good vibe coming from it. I felt lighter.
Secondly, we had to introduce ourselves and say a word that describes who we are and that starts with the letter of our first name. Mine was Sunshine...This word describes me almost perfectly*.Then, we did the "veil meditation".
.... The instructor, told us to close our eyes, and think of veils that covered our faces/our body. Each veil had it's meaning and a different color.
I'd like to tell you, about my experience, while doing this meditation.
Before I begin, I just would like to point out that I was able to concentrate knowing that none of my friends had gone that day, and that I had to do this, in order to really feel how it is to be a meditative state of being. All of my veils were see-through and light.
The first veil, was colored blue, it represented me being a student. I had to take it off and put it down. I felt as if I had lost a part of me.
Green colored veil meant family, I took it off and I missed my family so much. I wanted to cry; and all the good/bad memories rushed into to my mind. I missed those who have departed from this world more than ever. I wish I could see them for a last time.
Next, we had to take the veil that represented friends, for me that was a red color. I felt so relieved, liberated; I felt as if I don't to prove anything to anyone.
My future was colored white, I was happy to know I have plans for the future, for my tomorrow. Plans of being a greater person, of walking my talk, of going places, meeting people, achieving peace where there's war.....of meditating at a Buddhist monastery in Tibet. All of these plans, and many others are part of my dreams, my future.
Second to last, I had to take the veil of self, off. I did it, I put it down carefully. I promised myself that I would take care of myself more, that I would enrich myself with positivism and realism.
Lastly, I had to let my body go...I felt as if I was dissolving. That's when I started dancing, my body started to wiggle, All in all, I felt freer than ever before.
Meditation veil: I did it, I like it, and I recommend it.







If you would like to know more information about different types of meditation. I recommend this site. It is great. http://www.spiritualnow.com/articles/20/1/The-Different-Types-of-Meditation/Page1.html

Imbroglio*

Relief, shelter, fear, all of these words create moods that you learned to accept without ever questioning their values.

QUESTION!

*a confused heap

World Travel...

These pictures, are from places I've mentioned below!

World Travel

It is not hard to imagine myself, embarking on a world journey.
It is not hard to dream about emerging myself, on a culture and tradition different than my own.
It is hard to be in two places at once; therefore taking one step at a time, is my best bet.
India, Indonesia, Italy....these three countries call my attention. I don't know if it's because of the book "Love, Eat and Pray" by Elizabeth Gilbert, I recently read.
But either way it's something about them...Or could it be Egypt, Kenya, and Israel?
Opportunities and more opportunities!
Places, people, food, language, culture...etc these amongst many other "interests" calls my name.
I wish, I could be at not only two but three, four, five...places...or as many as I could imagine, and dream about.
Something about the world really fascinates me.
I don't know what exactly is it, but I do know that it changes me for the better each and everyday.
It makes me want IT, more than ever, with all my positive thoughts and with all my soul.
I want to embark in this world journey, which began since I opened my eyes for the first time.
I want to be part of this world, today, more than ever before.
I want IT.
I really do.
Questioning myself is out of the question.
I dream with my eyes wide open, and I can feel my soul vibrate...
It's my five senses working at their best.
It's me embarking in this world journey, that I imagined myself in.
It's me in India, Indonesia and Italy...It's me in Egypt, Kenya and Israel...
It's me and the reality of this world.
World travel, is what I call IT.
IT starts...NOW!

Vibes!

Sometimes I feel too much, at other times feel nothing and sometimes, I envision,
A tangle.
Stagnation.
I feel like I'm not part of here.
I feel as if I have to go home.
Renewal, indecision.

....
I look back and I see that a certain sweetness is gone.
I'm nostalgic.
My hands are tied.
Without the power for any resolution and action.
Powerless...
I feel a veil that falls on my face, on my shoulder.
I get on my knees.
There's a strange feeling that I have been here before.
I must be lost, walking in circles.

Signs ...
And the heat that warms my soul is gone.
Thinking about it, makes me miss it.
The reality is, it hurts my stomach.
I should see a doctor!
Not one, but two!
Take medications, do treatments, follows the instructions strictly.
And all this, accompanied by a hand to hold.

Power...
Don't trust it.
Forget that it can help you.
Forget about what it is.
Forget that you came from it.
Sweet are the dead, that pretends to be saints.
Sweet are the sordid pretending to be clean.
I forgot how life can have a sweet taste.
How could someone act like this? Poor thing...
Pitiable are the weak too.
Woe to those who deceive themselves.
But...what's the advantage of not being deceived?
What is it?
Aloof. Cold. Fearful. Sad. Disenchanted.
What a crestfallen look....it must be the lack of sun.
That's it, I'll go look for a doctor!
I promise to fix everything, the way it's supposed to be.
Ignorance.
My spirit is poor.
Lack of for an active voice and individualism.
Lack for a character.
I dream of a worthy,
living soul.
Magic!
Open sesame.
I dream of a rapprochement.
Disagreements haunt me...
They dreamed of me...
I want to dream the same dream as you.
I outburst.
I discharge.
I have the sensation of walking in circles, we must ask:
Where is the exit, please?
Where is the exit?

Missing the SUN!

Oh how I miss home, my real home!
Nothing like the beautiful summer of Cape Verde.
If you are tired of winter, if it makes you weary all day; than this goes out to you.
Sun, warmth, nights of "luar", friends, conversations, laughter, the sun. Tranquility, smoothness. A bath at the beach to refresh your body, spirit and mind. Kids playing,and families gathering. People jogging, and walking through the beautiful sand. My grandpa walking through the streets,talking to people he had known his entire life, my cousin riding his bicycle.
Oh, how I miss those times when all I knew was the warmth of the morabeza of my beautiful "Petit Pays". Asking a friend to pass the baby-oil in order to achieve the perfect tan, the color kissed by the sun; laughter for life's enjoyment, and the vast ocean to purify my mind; when day dreaming had an endless limitation...
Going outside to get wet when it's raining (which only happens during 3 months a year, if we are lucky!)....surfers at the beach (thank God, they invented this sport!) to appreciate, flirt and look at. Looking doesn't hurt, does it? An afternoon spent at my friends' house, and then walking home through the streets that I once knew so well. (It has changed since last time I was home.)
Summer is really astonishing! People get together, they reunite by the sunlight, the mysteries are discovered during the nights full of stars and the moon shines from a distance, to put your whole body in shape, with a good session of yoga for relaxation. Ah! and how about when women with cramps, reunite to refresh by the warm afternoon of summer, while waiting for the Doce de Papaya and Freskinha (papaya jam and ice cream)....their vision is usually fulfilled by the lady that walk long hours from street to street in order to sale the goodies everyone craves...but in between good laughter, when we less expect, the vision becomes reality and the desires are achieved. Happenings of the summer...
By the waters of March, we all wait to perpetuate this scenario, but while we don't live near the tropics, like Cape Verde, we can only enjoy every moment and change with the season, when it decides to change, because the pace of life, that, no one can stop!

A World Of Possibilities

The world:

Don't take everything so personal, nor dramatize what ever happens.
Certain things happen because of the relativity of possibilities.
Everything is possible. Therefore, open your mind.
Right now is chilly outside; later it will be windy; and then rain will come. This has nothing to do with you, it's just the way nature is and its vital cycles.
Whether you exist or not, the world will continue to go round and round without stopping...
Whether you smile or cry, nature will always be in its own way! So what's the point in fussing and complaining that the weather is not like you want it to be? And, inside of you, isn't it like this too??